Bachelor & Bachelorette Party Ideas, Games, Supplies, & Themes Q&A

Bachelorette Party - is it necessary

I am the matron of honor of a wedding I have serious concerns with. I am trying to do the right thing and want to know if I am required to throw a bachelorette party based on basic etiquette standards? A huge bridal shower has already been thrown and the bride does not drink, she wants to have.... [Read more]

Bridesmaid cannot afford to pay for bachelorette party

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I am the maid of honor with five other bridesmaids in the bridal party. For the bachelorette party, the bride wanted to do a spa weekend. All bridesmaids, but one are feeling financially able to afford paying for all the bride's expenses. Do I tell the one bridesmaid to buck up the couple.... [Read more]

In-laws crashing bachelorette party

One of my bridesmaids ('Jenn') is my future sister-in-law, who has a 2 yr old. She lives in a different state than I.

I decided to fly to Las Vegas to have my bachelorette party (I'm even paying my own way) . I just found out that my bridesmaid's parents (my future in-laws) are also flying out.... [Read more]

Bridesmaid unable to attend shower/bachelorette party

I am in a friend's wedding, and she has planned her shower and bachelorette party are planned for the same weekend. I will be unable to attend, as I will have just had a baby within 2 weeks of the scheduled date (the events will be taking place about 4 hours from where I live, and she is getting.... [Read more]

Should I still contribute to bachelorette party if I can't attend?

Hi! A very good friend of mine is having a wedding in August. I just received an invitation to bachelorette party hosted by one of her friends. It includes a little slip of paper, saying that the spa packages are 175 per person and that after the spa they will be treating the bride to dinner and.... [Read more]