Out of Town wedding - who pays for lodging?

My fiance and I are discussing possibly getting married at the Outer Banks of North Carolina. We, as well as everyone in my family and in the party, will be traveling down there and staying together. Who pays for the lodging of the attendants?

My best friend and sister are standing with me and my.... [Read more]

Do we have to saty at the hotel after the wedding

The mother of the bride says that I have to stay downtown at the hotel when I only live 20 minutes away. I have a husband and child. She says that she can stay in the room with the paid daycare attendant and that we are going to the bar after the reception from midnight till 2 am. The wedding.... [Read more]

Lodging question for destination wedding

I am getting married at an expensive hotel. We have also booked rooms at a more affordable hotel to give guests a choice. My parents are paying for each of our attendants to stay at the expensive hotel where we were planning to have two attendants share a room. Two groomsmen, however, have serious.... [Read more]

Guests staying at the same hotel as bride and groom

We are attending a wedding on the continent. The bride and groom have booked the reception in the same hotel as they are staying. It would be convenient as a guest to also book rooms at the same hotel as the bride and groom. Is it acceptable etiquette to stay at the sam hotel as the bride and.... [Read more]

Attendant Lodging

Hello! My fiance and I live about 1 1/2 hours inland from our wedding site on the coast. Our wedding attendants will be coming from around the same area that we are coming from. Are we required to pay for their lodging? They will need to stay the night since its a evening wedding starting at.... [Read more]