Confused about who pays for lodging

After reading several replies, I now know that it is 'proper ettiquette' for the wedding party's lodging to be paid for by the wedding couple. I didn't realize this before. I am having a destination wedding and all in our wedding party are making a vacation out of the trip and staying 1 week. A.... [Read more]

Pay for more than one night in hotel for groomsmen?

My best man and his new wife are flying in Thursday and the wedding is on Saturday. That's 2 nights of lodging. I have no problem paying for one night, and not really much of a problem for a 2nd, but it's getting unaffordable to pay for all these little things. Theoretically had he flown in 5.... [Read more]

Paying for destination wedding attendant lodging at all-inclusive resort

My fiance and I are planning to get married at an all-inclusive resort in Punta Cana in early July.

Our attendants have agreed to be part of the wedding party under the assumption that they would foot the bill for their lodging (we are working hard to get good group and early-bird rates, and plan.... [Read more]

Destination Wedding: Lodging wording

We are having trouble wording the lodging aspect of our wedding invitation, since we are paying for our guest accomodation to our wedding. We want to say something like: Because you mean so much to us.........but we want to leave the part of we are going to pay for this very tastefull and.... [Read more]

Maid of Honor Lodging at Destination Wedding

I have been asked to be the maid of honor at a destination wedding in Las Vegas. However, the bride has not offered to pay for my lodgings at the wedding. She had previously sent me an email detailing a flight-hotel package for the weekend, I replied that it was proper for her to pay for my.... [Read more]