Etiquette on paying for attendants lodging

Hello! I have reviewed several postings and have since found out that it's etiquette to pay for the attendants lodging! I had NO idea. We're having only a Best Man and Maid of Honor. We'll be in Costa Rica and my M.of H. will be staying with her boyfriend for one week. The Best Man will be.... [Read more]

Out of Town wedding - who pays for lodging?

My fiance and I are discussing possibly getting married at the Outer Banks of North Carolina. We, as well as everyone in my family and in the party, will be traveling down there and staying together. Who pays for the lodging of the attendants?

My best friend and sister are standing with me and my.... [Read more]

Lodging for destiation wedding attendants in another hotel

My fiance and I are planning a destination wedding in Honolulu in March. I understand that I will be paying for attendants' lodging. Is it a must that I put my attendants up at the same hotel where the wedding will be? Although the ceremony/reception were actually quite reasonable in price, the.... [Read more]

Lodging for Bridesmaids Question

My fiancé and I are getting married in the city later this year, and all of my bridesmaids either live right outside the city or their parents live right outside the city. I just figured everyone would want to stay at the hotel across from where our reception is going to be held for the sake of.... [Read more]

Maid of Honor Lodging at Destination Wedding

I have been asked to be the maid of honor at a destination wedding in Las Vegas. However, the bride has not offered to pay for my lodgings at the wedding. She had previously sent me an email detailing a flight-hotel package for the weekend, I replied that it was proper for her to pay for my.... [Read more]