Unequal attention for both parents - financial - Help

My future MIL is not a cooperative person and relies on her children heavily for finacial help. We are going to pay for her expenses to our destination wedding in October (as her other son is doing for his Hawaii wedding in June). If we didn't pay for this she wouldn't come to the wedding. We.... [Read more]

Who is Involved with Lighting Unity Candle

The bride has asked me to light the unity candle in plsce of her mother who is attending but does not support the marriage. The bride's mom and dad are divorced so I would be lighting the candle with her father (who is single now). I am married and my husband is fine with me lighting the candle..... [Read more]

Not so pretty chairs

Hello,

The chairs that will be provided by the reception hall are not very glamorous. I cannot bring in my own rented chairs, I have to use the ones provided. They are simple "stackable" style plastic chairs. They are also blue, which would not match my colors of chocolate brown and.... [Read more]

Attention hogging sister

My entire life my sister has been in the spotlight. No one in my family puts her in her place, she has been dubbed the "princess." She is 4 years older than me and i have been dating my fiance for 4 years now. She changes boyfriends constantly, but has been dating the same guy now for 8months. My.... [Read more]

Seating and Unity Candle Lighting of Divorced Parents

My daughter wants unity candles lit by me (the mother), her Dad, and the groom's mother and father. Each of the four of us are divorced and remarried. Please suggest ways to handle the escorting and seating of the biological mothers for the lighting of the unity candle. We have seen this done.... [Read more]