How do i find out who is paying for wedding attendant's hotel?

I'm traveling from out of town to be an attendant in a friend's wedding. When she was in mine, we paid for her hotel for 4 nights. She has offered to have me stay at her apartment for the first two nights I am there and then when my husband arrives, we will stay at a hotel. I have been assuming.... [Read more]

Lodging problem

I understand that the bride is supposed to pay for the attendents' lodging for a destination wedding. I am a MOH and travelling to an international location for the wedding. The bride has not offered to pay for lodging. How do I approach this ? We have already spent over a thousand dollars on.... [Read more]

Asking Guests To Stay At A Certain Hotel

Hi! We will be getting married in Cancun at an All-Inclusive Resort. I have done countless hours of researching the right hotel, area, etc. and have my heart set on a particular hotel. The sticky thing is: they require that 70% of my guests stay at that hotel. Guests that are not staying must pay.... [Read more]

Letting guests know about lodging options in the wedding invitation

We will be having an outdoor ceremony & reception BOTH at my Father's house on 40 beautiful acres. This is a semi-formal event. However most of the guests will be driving 3 hours. It is a fairly small & spread out town. When talking to a couple people about the drive & lodging options a.... [Read more]

Maid of Honor Lodging at Destination Wedding

I have been asked to be the maid of honor at a destination wedding in Las Vegas. However, the bride has not offered to pay for my lodgings at the wedding. She had previously sent me an email detailing a flight-hotel package for the weekend, I replied that it was proper for her to pay for my.... [Read more]