example toast quotes<\/a> you can use). Find one that wraps the toast up nicely and leaves people feeling the warm and fuzzies.<\/p>\nBest Man Speech Dos & Don\u2019ts<\/h2>\n
It is essential to be aware of the things you need to do to deliver an excellent best man speech and things that you need to stay away from at all costs. There aren\u2019t that many, but you better pay attention. You must understand that best man speech is a very popular source of entertainment for weddings today. The more suitable you can make the best man speech for the occasion, the better.<\/p>\n
DON\u2019T: Milk it and make it about you. <\/b>Remember, it is about the bride and groom, not you. A great best man speech should be less than 7 minutes and should focus on the couple.<\/p>\n
DO: Limit Anecdotes.<\/b> If you do decide that an anecdote is worth relating \u2013 and some definitely are \u2013 make it the centerpiece of your speech, not one of several stories that get lost in the mix. Also, only use stories that are relatable to most people.<\/p>\n
DO: Be funny, but not that funny.<\/b> The best man gets to poke some fun at the groom, but remember, this is his day. Don\u2019t destroy him in front of 200 people. Balance friendly digs with praise and well-wishes. A good best man speech is all about balance.<\/p>\n
DON\u2019T: Mention Ex Girlfriends.<\/b> Yep, the second time we\u2019re mentioning this one on the same page. There\u2019s a reason. Stay away. If you can\u2019t see why talking about your buddy\u2019s exes on his wedding day might upset some people (not least the bride), then you\u2019re an idiot.<\/p>\n
DO: Compliment the bride.<\/b> No making fun of the bride other than to point out her poor choice in companion as a husband. It is REALLY her day, so don\u2019t mess with her. This is how best men go missing and get hurt badly.<\/p>\n
DON\u2019T: Swear<\/b>. The language you and your buddies use when telling stories may be appropriate over beers at a BBQ, but not at a wedding. You\u2019re addressing a lot of guests from a wide range of backgrounds and ages. This isn\u2019t the time to push it when it comes to language.<\/p>\n
DON\u2019T: Read from a piece of paper the whole time.<\/b> Practice your speech, learn it and get comfortable. Learning your speech may not be your idea of fun, but it will make all the difference in how the guests perceive you. Can\u2019t remember the whole speech? Then work on the stuff that really makes a difference, the opening line and the closing toast.<\/p>\n
DO: Go out with a bang<\/b>. It is pretty easy to get the opening line right, but you need to be ready to go out hard as the speech ends. It\u2019s your closing comments that people will remember the clearest. Speak up, stand tall and deliver that final toast with gusto.<\/p>\n
DO: Choose a short and sweet story<\/b>. Don\u2019t tell 5-minute stories. If it can\u2019t be said in less than 30 seconds, toss it out. Stories that require a lot of background (no matter how funny or relevant) just aren\u2019t going to keep people\u2019s attention.<\/p>\nVideo Examples of Some Great Best Man Speeches<\/h2>\n
While researching best man speeches, a friend recommended we check out Youtube. Smart idea! We found loads of great best man speeches that were terrific examples of what to do. Everybody has their delivery and approach so keep that in mind.<\/p>\n
One of the Funniest Best Man Wedding Speeches Ever!<\/b><\/h3>\n
We\u2019re still laughing at this best man speech we found online. We are definitely stealing some lines from this one.<\/p>\n
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