{"id":1411,"date":"2010-12-14T20:37:54","date_gmt":"2010-12-15T01:37:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/?p=1411"},"modified":"2017-03-14T12:59:32","modified_gmt":"2017-03-14T16:59:32","slug":"the-no-drama-wedding-choosing-your-maid-of-honor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/bridal-party\/the-no-drama-wedding-choosing-your-maid-of-honor","title":{"rendered":"The No Drama Wedding: How To Choose A Maid of Honor"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_10653\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10653\" style=\"width: 768px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-25-at-11.28.35-PM.png\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\" wp-image-10653 \" alt=\"how to choose a maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-25-at-11.28.35-PM-1024x944.png\" width=\"768\" height=\"708\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10653\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-10653 \" alt=\"how to choose a maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Screen-Shot-2014-02-25-at-11.28.35-PM-1024x944.png\" width=\"768\" height=\"708\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> Source: http:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/190136415487748177\/<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>It may seem like such an obvious choice, but when it comes to minimizing drama at your wedding, your final decision in <strong>choosing a Maid of Honor<\/strong> is of monumental importance.<\/p>\n<p>While en route to cater a lavish destination wedding this weekend, I had the opportunity to get to know one of our newer staff members. \u00a0We navigated one hairpin corner after another as we crept closer to picturesque Shelter Cove, and Natalie shared keen insight about the importance of choosing the right Maid of Honor. \u00a0She explained that we often think of our sister as the ultimate woman to bestow this privilege upon, when in fact, sisters can sometimes be the absolute wrong choice.<\/p>\n<p>Natalie, a 2011 sociology grad, had never attended a wedding with less than 500 guests until she started working with our boutique catering company in northern California. Her extensive family is rich in custom and tradition, and a large wedding is naturally part of the festivities. \u00a0Having witnessed many loved ones\u2019 efforts to prepare for the big day, she has noticed, \u201ca best friend is better suited to handle the stress and months of planning which go on behind the scenes. \u201c<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1414\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1414\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1414\" style=\"margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;\" title=\"Choosing your maid of honor\" alt=\"Choosing your maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/leanne-and-her-girls-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1414\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1414\" style=\"margin-left: 5px; margin-right: 5px;\" title=\"Choosing your maid of honor\" alt=\"Choosing your maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/leanne-and-her-girls-300x168.jpg\" width=\"300\" height=\"168\" \/><\/noscript> Choosing Your Maid of Honor<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>I hadn\u2019t given it much thought (maybe the fact that I have six brothers and nary a sister in sight has something to do with it) and when we talked more, I realized that Natalie has a point. Brides need to remember that sisters should be free of the drama which, often only a best friend can forgive and forget.<\/p>\n<p>Think about this: when you need a listening ear, who is the first person you call? Don\u2019t think too much about it; she\u2019s likely the first person that popped into your mind.\u00a0 Does she know you best, hold you tight even when you\u2019re crying like a baby and staining her shirt with mascara? Does she stand beside you even when you\u2019re in your most hideous state of mind? Can she tolerate your sniveling (yes, ladies, we all do it!) and your grouchy Midol moments? Can this woman take a road trip with you, get lost, change a flat in L.A. traffic, and break her favorite heel en route to the restaurant and still be your BFF when all is said and done?<\/p>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it. Weddings can bring out challenges and emotional growing pains in a way that little else will. When you can isolate the mover and shaker when you\u2019re immobile, the voice<\/p>\n<p>when you have none, and the serene goddess who can face a blizzard with the grace of an island breeze, then you know you\u2019ve got the perfect Maid of Honor. Treat her with kid gloves. She\u2019s a treasure!<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to minimizing drama, give your sis a break. If she\u2019s also your best friend, then perhaps she will be the exception to this suggestion. I have a few friends whose BFFs are their sisters, and they are undoubtedly smiling while reading this. For the rest of us, let our sisters be one of the special guests shedding a tear of joy from the comfort and privacy of the front row. Best friends are key players in life, and should definitely be honored as such on the biggest day of your life.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_10654\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-10654\" style=\"width: 568px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10654\" alt=\"how to choose your maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad.jpg\" width=\"568\" height=\"852\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad.jpg 568w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-533x800.jpg 533w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-500x750.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-10654\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-10654\" alt=\"how to choose your maid of honor\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad.jpg\" width=\"568\" height=\"852\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad.jpg 568w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-533x800.jpg 533w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/45e66535f71fe55fcd9d2541cc3aedad-500x750.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 568px) 100vw, 568px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> Source: http:\/\/www.pinterest.com\/pin\/441352832204314621\/<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Responsibilities <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>So when we talk about all that behind the scenes planning, what does a Maid of Honor do? In my experience, the Maid of Honor can throw a bridal shower and help plan a bachelorette party. She holds the bride\u2019s bouquet during the ceremony, standing by her side during vows. Beyond that, her role will vary according to the couple&#8217;s needs and desires coupled with\u00a0 the maid of honor&#8217;s abilities to assist the bride and groom with details of the big day. Most of it can be delightfully fun-filled bonding moments, from selecting invitations and party favors to arranging play lists and fine tuning menus and flower arrangements.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1422\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1422\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Image1.png\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1422 \" title=\"Bride and her bridesmaids\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Image1-300x190.png\" width=\"300\" height=\"190\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1422\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1422 \" title=\"Bride and her bridesmaids\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/12\/Image1-300x190.png\" width=\"300\" height=\"190\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> Bride, Maid of Honor and Bridesmaids<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>Depending upon the groom, most details can be handled like any party, but let\u2019s call the kettle black. Truth is, we want to believe our men are just as wiggling with excitement over choosing china patterns and cumberbunds as we are. In reality, men and women generally have different interests.\u00a0 I absolutely promise you a happier engagement if you ask your fiance what he wants to help with, and then respect his answer. \u00a0Most men will shrug their shoulders or say \u201cwhatever you want babe!\u201d and truly mean just that. He\u2019ll be as pleased as punch if you pick his favorite entree and beverage at the reception. In trade, agree to a weekly update where you get to share all your accomplishments with him over dinner.\u00a0 If you trust me on this single detail, I swear that you\u2019ll be among the minor few who walk down the aisle to greet a serene, truly elated fianc\u00e9 dying to seal your union with a kiss (more on that in our next article).<\/p>\n<p>This is where your Maid of Honor shines. During the moments leading up to and following the ceremony, she can be your liaison between caterer, photographer, musicians, minister, and florist. Any odd little challenges will fall to her once you and your beloved are in the throes of dressing, rehearsing, fine tuning, and hair styling. The reception becomes her baby as you greet guests and snuggle with your hubby on the dance floor.<\/p>\n<p>It is a great compliment to be selected as your Maid of Honor&#8211; and with it comes a sense of duty and seriousness not to be taken lightly. Choosing her should include some reflection. The ideal candidate will allow you and your fianc\u00e9 to savor this enchanting engagement period. Give it some thought today. I just know you\u2019ll be glad you did!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do you have ideas for how to pick the maid of honor? 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