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Or should it be close friends? <strong>\u2014 Nicole<\/strong><\/div>\n<div class=\"expert-answer\">\n<p>This is a fairly easy question to answer. There\u2019s only one rule when it come to picking the person who will stand next to you on your big day \u2014 ready for it?<strong>The Rule: Your Maid (or Matron of Honor) should be someone who you are close to,<\/strong> someone you trust, and someone you know you will be able to turn to for support in the future as well.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"imgborder\" src=\"https:\/\/www.favorideas.com\/images\/ask-wholl-walk-me.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"6\" vspace=\"10\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"imgborder\" src=\"https:\/\/www.favorideas.com\/images\/ask-wholl-walk-me.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"6\" vspace=\"10\" \/><\/noscript>So, that said, there are no rules saying that can\u2019t be someone related to you. In many weddings, the bridal party includes siblings, so why not parents? I can\u2019t say I\u2019ve ever been to a wedding were the mother was in the wedding party, but I have been to two recently where the father served as Best Man. I think having your mother as your maid (matron) of honor is an amazing and wonderful idea that will be a cherished, lasting memory for both of you!<\/p>\n<p>One suggestion I\u2019d have, though, is to arrange for your mother to wear a different color or style then the rest of the bridesmaids (if you have more). This will help separate your mother from the other bridesmaids, so that she maintains a place of extra honor: after all \u2014 she\u2019s more then just a Maid of Honor!<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<h4>The Expert<\/h4>\n<div class=\"author\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" src=\"https:\/\/www.favorideas.com\/images\/headshot-crystal.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"100\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"12\" vspace=\"0\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.favorideas.com\/images\/headshot-crystal.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"100\" align=\"right\" hspace=\"12\" vspace=\"0\" \/><\/noscript>Crystal Unrau is an experienced wedding planner who specializes in ettiquette, wedding decor, wedding fashion, wedding planning and most importantly, dream weddings on a budget. She is the owner of Wedding Style Diva.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s not very traditional for a mother to be in a maid-of-honor. 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