{"id":4678,"date":"2012-05-17T11:02:22","date_gmt":"2012-05-17T16:02:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/?p=4678"},"modified":"2014-08-14T13:23:05","modified_gmt":"2014-08-14T17:23:05","slug":"wedding-toasting-etiquette","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-reception\/wedding-toasting-etiquette","title":{"rendered":"Wedding Toasts. How To Follow &#8220;Proper&#8221; Wedding Toasting Etiquette"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_12322\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12322\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12322\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast etiquette\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12322\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12322\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast etiquette\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993331675-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cameronnordholm\/4993331675\/\">Cameron Nordholm<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/photopin.com\">photopin<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>MORE: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/guides-wedding-tools\/ready-set-deliverthe-best-wedding-speech-or-toast-ever\">Read our Ultimate Guide to Wedding Speeches &amp; Toasts<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>The basics of wedding toasting etiquette:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The best wedding toasts are, in a word, brief. Wedding toasts help to add to the celebratory mood of the affair. Think about it, the wedding is about the bride (and sometimes about the groom). This is not the time for the best man to try out his new stand-up routine. The longer the <strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/guides-wedding-tools\/ready-set-deliverthe-best-wedding-speech-or-toast-ever\">wedding toast<\/a> <\/strong>the less memorable it is for the couple and for the guests.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Who is the Master of Ceremonies for the toasts?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Many people think the bandleader or the disc jockey is in charge of the toasts. Wrong! It may be hard to believe, but the best man is in charge of wedding toasting. That is right; this is the same person who was chosen to be the best man based solely on his ability to plan the bachelor party. While most best men will spend days, even weeks planning the demise of his buddy&#8217;s single status, they usually start thinking about their toasts the night before the nuptials. This means you, the bridal couple, need to do some advanced planning.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12323\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12323\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12323\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toasts\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12323\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12323\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toasts\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993941954-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cameronnordholm\/4993941954\/\">Cameron Nordholm<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/photopin.com\">photopin<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Who performs wedding toasts?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>The bridal couple should decide who is likely to want to toast at the wedding. This varies widely based upon the formality of the affair and the feelings of the family. Nowadays, it is common for the best man to toast the bride, the maid\/matron of honor to toast the groom, and the father of the bride to toast the couple. It is also common for the bride and groom to toast their parents and the guests. Additional toasts may depend on factors such as who is actually hosting the wedding. (For example, if the bride&#8217;s step-father is paying for the wedding, chances are he will be the one to toast the couple.) Even if the groom&#8217;s side is not financially supporting the couple, they should be offered the opportunity to bestow their well-wishes.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see, the toasting can become rather complicated rather quickly. It is best to consider the toasts well in advance to address any issues that may arise. (This also allows time to consult an etiquette reference as necessary.)<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12329\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12329\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12329\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12329\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12329\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993931176-1-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cameronnordholm\/4993931176\/\">Cameron Nordholm<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/photopin.com\">photopin<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>What about the rehearsal dinner?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Often people are so engrossed in thinking about the toasting at the wedding that they overlook the opportunity for toasts at the rehearsal dinner. The rehearsal dinner provides the time for anyone involved in the wedding to share their thoughts with the bride and groom. In addition, toasts at the rehearsal dinner can be spontaneous and can be longer than wedding-day toasts.<\/p>\n<p><strong>When are the wedding toasts?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>For formal affairs, the toasts are generally given after the meal. If the wedding cake the couple is cutting will be the cake served for dessert, the toasts are done following the cutting of the cake. If the cake the couple is cutting is not the cake being served, the toasts may occur immediately following the meal. For less formal and afternoon weddings, toasting is generally conducted after the couple&#8217;s first dance as husband and wife. Either way, you should consult with your caterer so that they can plan the timing of the dessert course.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12324\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12324\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12324\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12324\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12324\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499.jpg\" alt=\"wedding toast\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993338499-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cameronnordholm\/4993338499\/\">Cameron Nordholm<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/photopin.com\">photopin<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>What do the bride and groom do during the toasts?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>As for the newlyweds, while your friends and family are toasting your good fortune, you get to sit still and smile. No toasting to yourselves! What? You want a sip of champagne? Well then, you should get up and return a toast. Returned toasts, if you can imagine, are even briefer than the original toast to ensure things keep moving along.<\/p>\n<h4>MORE:<\/h4>\n<h4><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/guides-wedding-tools\/ready-set-deliverthe-best-wedding-speech-or-toast-ever\">Read our Ultimate Guide to Wedding Speeches &amp; Toasts<\/a>:<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong><a title=\"Groom Speech | The Ultimate Guide\" href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/groom-speech-the-ultimate-guide\">Groom&#8217;s Speech.<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>Our Guide to writing and delivering an amazing Groom wedding speech. See\u00a0<strong><a title=\"Groom Speech Examples. How to Get Your Groom Wedding Speech Right.\" href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/groom-speech-examples\">Groom speech examples<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>too.<\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/uncategorized\/best-man-speech-ultimate-guide\">Best Man Speech.<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>Helping the best man create an awesome best man speech. With\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/best-man-speech-examples\"><strong>example best man speeches<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0too.<\/li>\n<li><strong><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/thisisalink.com\/\">Maid of Honor Speeches<\/a>.\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong>How to come up with a great maid of honor speech.\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/thisisalink.com\/\">Example maid of honor speeches<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0included.<strong><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/father-of-the-bride-speech-the-ultimate-guide\">Father of the Bride Speech.<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>Your daughter&#8217;s getting married. 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Stay up to date.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12330\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12330\" style=\"width: 640px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12330\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428.jpg\" alt=\"toast wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12330\" class=\"wp-caption-text\"><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12330\" src=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428.jpg\" alt=\"toast wedding\" width=\"640\" height=\"426\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428.jpg 640w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/05\/medium_4993923428-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a> photo credit: <a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/cameronnordholm\/4993923428\/\">Cameron Nordholm<\/a> via <a href=\"http:\/\/photopin.com\">photopin<\/a> <a href=\"http:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by\/2.0\/\">cc<\/a><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h6 class=\"zemanta-related-title\" style=\"font-size: 1em;\">Related articles<\/h6>\n<ul class=\"zemanta-article-ul zemanta-article-ul-image\" style=\"margin: 0; padding: 0; overflow: hidden;\">\n<li class=\"zemanta-article-ul-li-image zemanta-article-ul-li\" style=\"padding: 0; background: none; list-style: none; display: block; float: left; vertical-align: top; text-align: left; width: 84px; font-size: 11px; margin: 2px 10px 10px 2px;\"><a style=\"box-shadow: 0px 0px 4px #999; padding: 2px; display: block; border-radius: 2px; text-decoration: none;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/solid-wedding-toast-advice-you-should-always-follow\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" style=\"padding: 0; margin: 0; border: 0; display: block; width: 80px; max-width: 100%;\" src=\"http:\/\/i.zemanta.com\/257935916_80_80.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"padding: 0; margin: 0; border: 0; display: block; width: 80px; max-width: 100%;\" src=\"http:\/\/i.zemanta.com\/257935916_80_80.jpg\" alt=\"\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><a style=\"display: block; overflow: hidden; text-decoration: none; line-height: 12pt; height: 83px; padding: 5px 2px 0 2px; background-image: none;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-planning\/solid-wedding-toast-advice-you-should-always-follow\" target=\"_blank\">Don&#8217;t Be An Idiot. 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