{"id":51512,"date":"2014-08-20T21:40:26","date_gmt":"2014-08-20T21:40:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.topweddingquestions.com\/blog\/?p=6535"},"modified":"2014-08-20T21:40:26","modified_gmt":"2014-08-20T21:40:26","slug":"the-golden-rules-of-wedding-invitation-etiquette-wording-addressing-properly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wedding-invitations\/the-golden-rules-of-wedding-invitation-etiquette-wording-addressing-properly","title":{"rendered":"The Golden Rules of Wedding Invitation Etiquette: Wording &#038; Addressing Properly"},"content":{"rendered":"<h1 style=\"color: #363b3f; text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6924\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-800x533.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-472x315.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6924\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-800x533.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52d61934e1abc900x-1-472x315.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/h1>\n<h1 style=\"color: #363b3f; text-align: center;\">The Golden Rules of Wedding Invitation Etiquette<\/h1>\n<p>A <a href=\"http:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/guides-wedding-tools\/ultimate-guide-to-wedding-invitations\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">wedding invitation<\/a> is much like any other invitation&#8211;it invites guests to an event. Like all invitations, it conveys information about the event, such as the who, what, when, where, and why. However, it is a rather unique type of invitation. This piece of paper can actually create an impression of glamour, good taste, wealth, warmth, or even, &#8220;OMG! Really? I can&#8217;t believe they thought that was appropriate!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t want that last reaction? Then simply follow the &#8220;Golden Rules&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 1 Follow flawless form. Hey, you&#8217;ve got style!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Remember that invitations convey information with more than just words. Formal or informal? The weight of the paper is heavier; the font is more ornate with formal weddings.<\/p>\n<p>Never use labels to address your envelopes! But you&#8217;ve got bad handwriting? No problem. It&#8217;s okay to print envelopes with a high quality laser printer, using a handwriting font. For more formal weddings consider hiring a calligrapher.<\/p>\n<p>What else makes an invitation formal? Wording. Use of the phrase, &#8220;request the honour of your presence&#8221; is common, even though this is typically reserved for religious ceremonies. Request the pleasure of your company is used for civil ceremonies, those not being held in a place of worship and for an invitation to the reception only.<\/p>\n<p>With formal invitations, use the most formal format: listing parents as hosts. This doesn&#8217;t mean that the couple couldn&#8217;t use their names as hosts, especially if this is an encore wedding. And, if parents are divorced and remarried, the spouse should be listed. Steps are parents too.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.top10weddingsites.com\/wedding-invitation-ideas.html\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9146\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1.jpg\" alt=\"wedding invitation etiquette\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-534x800.jpg 534w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-500x750.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-472x708.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-9146\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1.jpg\" alt=\"wedding invitation etiquette\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-534x800.jpg 534w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-500x750.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/08\/Whats-The-Difference-Between-Engagement-Ring-And-Promise-Ring-13-1-472x708.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 2 Online is fine.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Invitations can be sent using any method, with the formality setting the method:<\/p>\n<p>Formal = hand addressed and snail mail<br \/>\nInformal = fewer rules.<\/p>\n<p>For the very informal wedding with few guests, it is perfectly appropriate to use the internet, i.e. &#8220;e-vites&#8221; (E-mail) or Facebook. But, be very careful to inform your guests of exactly who is and is not invited. Be specific.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 3 Mention the players.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Traditionally, parents, especially the bride&#8217;s parents, invited (hosted) guests and were mentioned at the top of the wedding invitation. As mentioned before, this form is still used, especially for the most formal wedding. However, anyone can &#8220;invite&#8221; and appear as host. Anyone, except those who cannot host, like young children and those who are deceased (listed under the bride&#8217;s and groom&#8217;s names as: also the daughter\/son of&#8230;, and on the wedding program.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 4 No kiddie zone? Let them know.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Even on informal invitations, where there are fewer restrictions, never write &#8220;adult only&#8221; or &#8220;child free event&#8221;. It&#8217;s offensive to parents and sounds negative. So, how do you let these parents know this is a kid free event? Simple -just don&#8217;t include the children&#8217;s names on the inner envelope. What if there is no inner envelope? List those invited on the outer envelope. (If you ARE inviting children and there&#8217;s no inner envelope, only list the adults on the outer envelope and include an insert informing the couple that their children are also invited.) This is a clever way of also including a &#8220;plus-one&#8221;. But, be sure to get the full name of the guest\/child and spell it out.<\/p>\n<p>Mrs. Jane Jones and Guest = NO<br \/>\nMrs. Jane Jones and Michael Gold = YES<\/p>\n<p>This is especially important if you don&#8217;t want strangers attending. Use this same format for reception place cards too.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 5 Invitations all around.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Anyone over the age of 16 to 18 (some differing opinions on age) receive their own invitation even if living in the same home. However, couples, even same gender, receive only one invitation. They are &#8220;invited&#8221; as a couple.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 6 No B-listers please!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a common problem. The couple wants everyone they know and love to come to their wedding, but their venue or budget won&#8217;t allow. Using an A and B list to solve the problem is tricky. No one wants to be a B-Lister. Ouch! If this must be done, timing is everything.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 7 Don&#8217;t fish for gifts.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Some still believe and advise that all who receive a wedding invitation are obligated to send a gift. This belief tends to lead to invitations for everyone the parents and\/or couple has ever known; especially those they know won&#8217;t attend. Honestly, those who receive these know they are being asked to send a gift but aren&#8217;t expected to attend. However, do send invitations to those you really want to attend. If you don&#8217;t think they can or will attend, send them any way. Sometimes people surprise us. And, those we love will know we aren&#8217;t just fishing for gifts.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 8 Use enclosures.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Enclosures and response cards can be included with our invitations. Use enclosures to advise guests of attire (more on that later), inclusion of an escort or children, maps\/directions, local activities, and an easy way to respond (response card). On the response card, there should be a clear RSVP date with address and\/or phone number for replying, and include a stamp addressed envelope for ease of return. It&#8217;s fine to use an email address for the reply for an informal wedding.<\/p>\n<p>Tip: take a completed invitation to the Post Office to be weighed. You will need to know how much postage costs per invitation AND how much postage your response cards require. It&#8217;s difficult enough to get these cards back on time, so make the process simple for the guest. Although, if not using response cards, guests would write formal replies and mail these on their dime&#8230;ah, dollar.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 9 Dress for success!<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Deciphering dress codes is getting more and more difficult as people create their own&#8211;Texas Formal?? So, when we advise our guests what to wear, it is best to stick to the tried and true dress codes, such as &#8220;formal&#8221; or &#8216;black tie&#8217; and only for a formal, combination wedding\/reception invitation.<\/p>\n<p>So, what can we do to help our guests know what would be appropriate attire? After all, even if the wedding is informal, you probably don&#8217;t want guests arriving in swim suits. Including this information on an insert or enclosure should do the trick.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong class=\"bbc\"># 10 Resist to list\u2026 the registry.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Never ever include gift registry information with wedding invitations! Doing so makes the gift seem more important than the invitation. In fact, never print gift expectations on invitations, even if you don&#8217;t want any. And, requesting cash, in any manner, is viewed extremely negatively and greedy. Convey gift preference through word of mouth or on a wedding website, but never on the first page.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Do<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul class=\"bbc\">\n<li>Begin to gather names and addresses of guests early in the wedding planning process.<\/li>\n<li>Include groom when creating and addressing invitations. And, allow plenty of time for this. It can be a very time consuming activity.<\/li>\n<li>For ease of assembly, lay all enclosures, envelopes, and tissue out for all invitations so you don&#8217;t forget anything.<\/li>\n<li>Mail invitations eight weeks before the wedding. Save the dates may be sent up to a year in advance. These are not invitations, but all who receive them also receive invitations.<\/li>\n<li>If not using an inner envelope, write all names of those invited on the outer envelope or list children and escorts on enclosures.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Do not<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul class=\"bbc\">\n<li>Mention gift preferences, registry, gift table\/card box\/wishing well (gasp!) info on invitations&#8211;not even on enclosures.<\/li>\n<li>Invite guests you don&#8217;t want to attend just for a gift.<\/li>\n<li>List deceased parents or young children as hosts.<\/li>\n<li>Don&#8217;t use labels on envelopes.<\/li>\n<li>Use an A and B list if at all possible. If you do, do not send your B list out any later than 6 weeks before your event.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6925\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-800x533.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-472x315.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6925\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"400\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-800x533.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-500x333.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52a39a73a6a72900x-1-472x315.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<h1 style=\"color: #363b3f; text-align: center;\">More Tips &amp; Trips<\/h1>\n<h4><\/h4>\n<h4>Donna, Wedding Queen, President; Top Wedding Sites, Inc\u00ae, a wedding planning guide, and Recent Mother of the Groom<\/h4>\n<p><strong>Formal Invitation Wording<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Traditional style used when the bride&#8217;s parents are hosting:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">*Dr. and Mrs. Richard I Kerr<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">request the honour of your presence (religious) <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">or request thepleasure of your company (civil)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at the marriage of their daughter<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Susan Lynn Kerr<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">to <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Mr. James Walker Crandall <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Saturday, the ninth of July<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">two thousand and twelve (optional)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at half past five in the evening<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">*Father of the bride is a doctor, so his title is used.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\"> When the bride&#8217;s parents are hosting and the groom&#8217;s parents are included:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><br \/>\nMr. Richard Kerr and *The Honorable Jane Kerr<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><br \/>\nor request the<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">pleasure of your company (civil) <\/span><\/p>\n<p>at the marriage of their daughter <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Susan Lynn Kerr<\/span><\/p>\n<p>to <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Mr. James Walker Crandall <\/span><\/p>\n<p>son of Mr. and Mrs. James Crandall<\/p>\n<p>etc.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">*Mother of the bride is a judge so she is listed on a separate line.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">When both parents are hosting:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><br \/>\nMr. James Earle<\/span><\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>*Captain Jane Earle<\/p>\n<p>United States Navy<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>Mr. and Mrs. Michael Crandon<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/p>\n<p>or request the<span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">pleasure of your company (civil) <\/span><\/p>\n<p>at the marriage of (their children)<\/p>\n<p>Cheryl Lynn Earle<\/p>\n<p>to<\/p>\n<p>Mr. James Walker Crandon<\/p>\n<p>etc. <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">*Mother and father are listed on separate lines when one is an officer in the military. Branch of service is included<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">The bride or groom wish to honor a deceased parent:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>*Mrs. Jane (or James) Earle<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/p>\n<p>or request the<span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">pleasure of your company (civil) <\/span><\/p>\n<p>at the marriage of her daughter<\/p>\n<p>Shannon Lynn Earle<\/p>\n<p>also daughter of the late Mr. James Earle<\/p>\n<p>to<\/p>\n<p>Mr. James Walker Crandon<\/p>\n<p>son of the late Mrs. Michelle (or Michael) Crandon<\/p>\n<p>(or son of Mr. Michael Crandon and the late Mrs. Michelle Crandon)<\/p>\n<p>etc. <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">*It is becoming more common for women to use their first names rather than their husband&#8217;s.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">When the bride&#8217;s stepfather is hosting along with the mother:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mr. and Mrs. James Earle<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/p>\n<p>or<\/p>\n<p>request the<span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">pleasure of your company (civil)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> *at the marriage of her daughter<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Shannon Lynn Maurice<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">to <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Mr. James Walker Crandon <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> *If stepmother were hosting with father, &#8220;her&#8221; would be replaced with &#8220;his&#8221; daughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">The couple is issuing the invitation, but honoring their parents:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> Dr. Shannon Lynn Maurice<\/span><\/p>\n<p>daughter of Mr. and Mrs. James Maurice<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>Mr. James Walker Crandon<\/p>\n<p>son of Mr. and Mrs. Michael Crandon<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious) <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><br \/>\nor request thepleasure of your company (civil)<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Children hosting<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mr. and Mrs. James Louis Markum (the bride&#8217;s oldest son and spouse)<\/p>\n<p>Ms. Shannon Lynn Markum (the bride&#8217;s younger daughter)<\/p>\n<p>Mr. Samuel Graham Earle (the groom&#8217;s son)<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/p>\n<p>or request thepleasure of your company (civil) <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at the marriage of their parents<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Ms. Simone Clair Markum<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">to <\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Mr. Charles Sean Earle<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">etc.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">An invitation issued by the couple to the wedding and reception:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> The pleasure of your company is requested<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at the marriage of<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Susan Lynn Kerr<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>Mr. James Walker Crandall <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Saturday, the tenth of May<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at five o&#8217;clock<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Happy Valley Resort<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">San Francisco<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">And afterward at the reception<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">RSVP<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> <strong class=\"bbc\">Reception held in a different location than the wedding.<\/strong><\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">The honour of your presence is requested<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at the marriage of <\/span><\/p>\n<p>Susan Lynn Kerr<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>Mr. James Walker Crandall <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Saturday, the fifth of May<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">at five o&#8217;clock<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Church of the Blessed Saints<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Sacramento<br \/>\n<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Please join us immediately afterwards<\/span> <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">for the reception<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Granite Bay Country Club<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">4433 Granite Bay Drive<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Granite Bay<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">RSVP<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Informal Invitations <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Options are limitless! Be creative and personal. <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Parents Hosting<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Jane and John Coates<\/span><\/p>\n<p>along with Michelle and James Crandon<\/p>\n<p>*invite you to the wedding of their children<\/p>\n<p>Shannon Coates to James Crandon<\/p>\n<p>Saturday, June 19, 2011 (year is optional)<\/p>\n<p>at 6:00 in the evening (6 pm may be used)<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Location<\/strong><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"><strong class=\"bbc\">Options:<\/strong> *invite you to share and celebrate (or share in the joy) at the marriage of their children; <em class=\"bbc\">wish<\/em> to share their joy in the wedding of their children&#8230;etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Most any phase can be used here as long as it &#8220;invites&#8221;.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">The bride or groom wish to honor a deceased parent:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Maria Giordano<\/p>\n<p>daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Giordano<\/p>\n<p>(or daughter of Mrs. Sharon Giordano and the late Mr. Frank Giordano)<\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>James Smith<\/p>\n<p>son of Mr. and Mrs. John Smith<\/p>\n<p>(or son of Mr. John Smith and the late Mrs. Michelle Smith)<\/p>\n<p>request the honour of your presence (religious)<\/p>\n<p>or request the<span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">pleasure of your company (civil) <\/span><\/p>\n<p>etc.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Couple Invites<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> Maria Giordano<\/span><\/p>\n<p>and<\/p>\n<p>James Smith<\/p>\n<p>invite you to share their joy (most any phrase can used)<\/p>\n<p>at their wedding<\/p>\n<p>Etc.<\/p>\n<p>This can also be a handwritten letter if your wedding is a small intimate event. Email is fine as well.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Children Hosting<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mary Ennis<\/p>\n<p>with her daughter Lindsay Ennis<\/p>\n<p>and <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Charles Earle<\/span><\/p>\n<p>with his son Samuel Earle<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\"> wish to invite you to the celebration <\/span><\/p>\n<p>of uniting these two families (most any phrase may be used here) <span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">etc.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"bbc\">Handwritten (or Email) Invitation<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Dear John and Susan,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Michael and I will be married on July 9, at 2 pm at our home, with a cake and champagne reception following the ceremony. Please come and celebrate with us.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 10px;\">Warm regards,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6927\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"451\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-300x226.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-800x602.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-500x376.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-472x355.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-6927\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"451\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-300x226.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-800x602.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-500x376.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f41fb770bdf900x-1-472x355.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p>***Be sure to spell out words like states, time and dates. For example; the fifteenth of June (not June 15th) and half after five o&#8217;clock in the evening, (not 5:30 pm).<\/p>\n<p>Make sure to put return postage on all RSVP envelopes.<\/p>\n<p>Always try to find out the names of a guest to avoid the impersonal &#8220;and guest&#8221; on invitations and place cards.<\/p>\n<p>No punctuation is necessary when wording the invitation except abbreviations and a comma between city and state.<\/p>\n<p>A folded formal wedding invitation is slid into the inner envelope, fold first and printed side facing up (in other words facing the opening of the envelope). Inserts go on to of the printed side.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6928\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-800x532.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-500x332.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-472x314.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><noscript><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-6928\" src=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1.jpg\" alt=\"Wedding Invitation Golden Rules\" width=\"600\" height=\"399\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-800x532.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-360x240.jpg 360w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-500x332.jpg 500w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-549x366.jpg 549w, https:\/\/www.topweddingsites.com\/wedding-blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/06\/52f027c706f39900x-1-472x314.jpg 472w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<h4>@sealdwithappeal asked on Twitter:<\/h4>\n<p>What do you think about using &#8220;honor&#8221; vs. &#8220;honour&#8221; on wedding invitations ie: hono(u)r of your presence&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Answer: The words honour or favour, written in the British style, are traditional wording but honor and favor, in the American style, is appropriate too if the couple prefers.<\/p>\n<h4>In conclusion,<\/h4>\n<p>Send a wedding invitation to everyone you want to attend the wedding. Don&#8217;t try to guess whether or not they can travel. Go ahead and send the invite and let your guest decide. Often people will get their feelings hurt if they don&#8217;t receive an invitation &#8211; even if they know they can&#8217;t come. It&#8217;s nice to feel wanted. That said, never send an invitation to someone you haven&#8217;t had a relationship (and I don&#8217;t mean commenting on facebook photos!) with in years (Ex. college roommates, long lost cousins). That will appear as though you&#8217;re just looking to pad the guest list &#8211; either because you want more gifts or you have to fil a seating quota. If you are thinking about getting back in touch, the wedding isn&#8217;t the place to start.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>photos via <a href=\"http:\/\/stylemepretty.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Style Me Pretty<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Golden Rules of Wedding Invitation Etiquette A wedding invitation is much like any other invitation&#8211;it invites guests to an event. Like all invitations, it conveys information about the event, such as the who, what, when, where, and why. However, it is a rather unique type of invitation. This piece of paper can actually create an impression of glamour, good taste, wealth, warmth, or even, &#8220;OMG! Really? I can&#8217;t believe they thought that was appropriate!&#8221; Don&#8217;t want that last reaction? 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