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If the bride&#8217;s family wishes to surprise the groom with a cake,<br \/>\nthey pay for it. It is an entirely optional addition to a reception, not a requirement.<\/p>\n<p>I am confused and need to know who pays. <\/p>\n<h1> Rebecca Black, Etiquette By Rebecca <\/h1>\n<p>Dear Who Pays,<\/p>\n<p>The reason you are receiving conflicting responses is because parents are no longer part of this equation. This is the couple&#8217;s wedding. If they want one, then they should pay. Anything the parents wish to contribute to the wedding expenses, they may. But, the parents are not financially responsible for their children&#8217;s weddings.<\/p>\n<p>Best wishes, <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have heard several different things about who pays for the groom&#8217;s cake: 1. The groom&#8217;s family always pays for it 2. The bride&#8217;s family pays if the cake is at the reception, and the groom&#8217;s family pays if the cake is at the rehearsal dinner. 3. 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