We all know that daughter-in-law doesn’t cope that well with her mother-in-law and in most of the cases they tease one and the other. This is a situation which can be most commonly found in our days and it isn’t news to you. The conflicts between these two appear due to the difference in age, the mentality between the two of them and also the continuous fight for the man that they love. It may sound funny, but that’s just the way it is.
Some of these conflicts can be avoided with the help of communication and the dose of tolerance that should be between the two of them. In the lines to come, you’re going to read about some pieces of advice that are definitely going to seem helpful and we’re sure that you’re going to take them into account.
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You, as a daughter-in-law should respect your mother-in-law and you need to be polite all the time. You’re going to end up gaining if you do things in this manner. Don’t forget that after all she’s the mother of the one you love and your half and he also stole your heart, didn’t he?
Don’t try to create a barrier between your husband and his mother because this will make the two of you be separated as well and you’re couple life is going to be affected.
Don’t criticize your husband in front of this mother even if you’re right; sooner or layer all will be turned against you.
Don’t compete with your mother-in-law because you’re not going to end up being that successful and these are things that are really important and need to be taken into account.
Try to maintain an equilibrated relationship with your mother-in-law and don’t involve her in your relationship with your husband, but don’t exclude her either, she’s his mother after all….
Don’t refuse from the start her ideas and pieces of advice and if you’re not intending to adopt them, at least try listening to them, even if they’re old fashioned and without utility.
Don’t criticize your mother-in-law in front of your husband even if you’re the woman whom he loves, she still remains his mother.
Even if at the beginning try to impose some limits between your family and his family in such a manner that your mother-in-law knows how much she can involve in your couple life.
Don’t try to spoil your mother-in-law just because she should think that you like her. She’s going to feel immediately that you’re acting fake and that you act fake: be yourself and try in the same time to be tolerant and communicative and also pay attention to every little gesture.