We are having an outdoor wedding and my fiance’s uncle offered to be our officiant, making this our wedding gift! What is an appropriate gift I can give him to show our thanks and appreciation at his generosity? (not only is he performing a service for free, he is also working during an event in which he would have been invited as a guest). I am afraid if we give a gift card, or something monetary, he will be offended. But, I want him to know how much this means to us and how grateful we are that he is doing this.

Thanks!

Donna, Wedding Queen, President; Top Wedding Sites, Inc

Gifts should always come from the heart. So, you’re right, a cash gift would be inappropriate. Consider his personality, hobbies, likes and dislikes and make a purchase of something he would not buy for himself. That makes the best gift. One suggestion could be a beautiful frame including the wedding photo of all three of you at the ceremony. Think personal…

Rebecca Black, Etiquette By Rebecca

I could not have answered this any better. This is very good advice.