Whose name goes first on the napkins? Bride or Groom?

Rebecca Black, Etiquette By Rebecca

There are no rules for this. But for traditional monograms (3 letters) it goes like this: the bride’s first name initial + groom’s last initial + goom’s first name initial. These days, it could be anything.

Donna, Wedding Queen, President; Top Wedding Sites, Inc

I just think it’s nice to do “ladies first”. [:)]

Nancy Tucker

I had actually always been told that the female’s name would go first and that his follows so that it actually connects to his last name. i.e. Susan and Wallace Jordan