7 tricks for maintaining yourself focused in wedding planning


Ask whoever you want – people who have already organized their weddings – in what they consider their wedding ceremony successful… They will answer that the success in a wedding consists in how elaborate is the wedding planning part. It’s normal that a little thing goes wrong, or multiple ones, but the most effective thing is to make up a plan for the wedding and stick with it as much as possible! In this way, you are able to get rid of migraines and other nerve problems. As long as you stick to the wedding planning hints that we have for you, the stress will be “removed” and so, your wedding ceremony will end up being as you wished.

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Don’t hurry!

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Here is a mistake that many couples do: they hurry up, and immediately after their engagement they try to organize their wedding ceremony, but in a short period of time. This is something that should be avoided in order for the wedding planning process to go just fine. Don’t forget that you should have lots of time for planning all the small details for the wedding ceremony and not only! If there is little time left for organizing the wedding, then you will feel the pressure and you wouldn’t want that, would you?!

The phone calendar or one on sheet

It’s really important to note all the details related to the wedding date and the wedding planning process. Take a calendar or note in your phone the day you got engaged and the next dates should be the ones related to booking the wedding venues and the other details that surround the big day. The last day on your calendar is the wedding reception, accompanied by the honeymoon right after.

Establish special days for the wedding planning

Try remaining calm in case there is little time left to the wedding day. You should consider all the details when it comes to this big day and if you feel pressure in what concerns the moments left up to the wedding day, then you should set a particular day or several ones during the week in which you can get occupied of every little detail of the wedding ceremony. In this way, you and the groom will not “stumble” one into the other in the wedding planning tasks.

Setting tasks for each one of you

So, you as the bride and the groom, if you are involved in the wedding planning procedures, this means that both should do certain things in order to end up with a successful ceremony. Here is what we suggest in order to end up with a well organized ceremony and happy faces: establish the tasks and put them on a sheet of paper, then spread this list into two and you are going to end up with equal burdens for both.

Exercise your communicative side

And by this, we don’t mean counseling or other things like that, we refer to maintaining discussions all the time concerning the wedding planning procedures and what you have done lately. So, talk with each other and mention what wedding vendors you have booked lately, in order that you don’t end up with two choices in the same field.

Also, at the level of communicating and talking we can also recall the problems that can be encountered at the level of the choices that you have to make for the big day. If you, as a bride, don’t like the suits that he has chosen for the best men or if you, as a groom, think it’s too sassy to have a pink wedding cake, then you should discuss these matters. By discussing, we relate to the fact that you have to be flexible and make a decision that suits both of you – talking stands at the basis and you should really do it in a very calm way.

The wedding vendors

We have mentioned briefly about these wedding vendors, now it only remains to mention the things that you have to do when it comes to wedding planning and these professionals: be sure you make the deals with all your professionals and you mention all the terms in their contracts, about the locations, time and dates. Make sure that you make yourself understood and in the same time, you have to read all the contracts with attention before you sign these.

Keeping everything organized

Maintaining every little detail organized is essential when it comes to wedding planning. If you buy an agenda or a special map in which you place everything, then there will be no problems encountered!