The wedding ceremony isn’t just a way in which you enjoy of this event fully, but also it implies imposing your point of view and lots of “fights” are involved as well…. Not few are the times in which the bride and groom are going to observe that the dearest ones make absolutely everything for convincing them that their choices aren’t wrong.
From the spiritual parents that want a big place, mother in laws that want the daughter in law to wear a larger or a longer wedding dress up to the bridesmaids who don’t agree with the theme of the wedding, the palette of complaints is indeed vast and it’s hard to include it in a single article.
This is why we’ve got to renouncing at causes and try to share with you some solutions with the help of which you’re going to impose your point of view, because after all it’s your wedding.
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You’re not going to resolve almost anything if you involve in an exaggerate manner and you react violently when you’re criticized or you’re doubted with the choices that you made concerning your wedding.
Try to listen with attention what the person next to you has to say and explain firmly that you’re not going to change anything as long as your wedding is organized accordingly to your tastes.
It’s very important that you have the support of the groom when you take decisions that concern both of your wedding. You’re going to observe that the ones close to you are not going to react in a bad manner when your partner sustains your decisions.
In addition, ask him to temper the reactions of the members of his family. If someone can make the future mother in law to change her opinions then surely this person is her son.
You don’t want that your style and aptitudes in organizing the wedding to be contested? Then hire a crew of professionals that do this thing for a long time and that have an impressive portfolio.
Surely there will be found all kinds of people that are going to comment on this situation, but you’re going to have the professionalism and the disputable taste of your guests.
Do you know that the mother in law is not going to find the right bridal gown that you’ve always dreamed of? Then don’t invite her at choosing the dress or when your try it on.
Is your uncle going to comment over the location that you’ve chosen for your wedding day? Tell him when you’re ready for everything and you’ve organized everything when it comes to your ceremony….
It’s true that if you avoid the problem this is not a solution and that you’re not going to resolve it, but you save some time and avoid psychical discomfort thinking of these tiny details.
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