Keep it simple with a black and white wedding theme
If you believe that too much colours can create chaos at your wedding ceremony, then you should definitely have a black and white wedding theme. It is needless to say that in this way your ceremony will be classy, stylish and charming, i.e. just the way you have always wanted it to be. So, go ahead and focus more on the style than on the vividness of your party.
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It is true that colours have their certain way of making a party spicy, but if this is not the effect you desired, then limit just to: black and white. In fact, one should not see this as a limitation, but just as a great choice of shades, choice that would definitely add the right touch.
If you need some suggestions on how to decorate your wedding venue, then our advice would be to go for some wedding candelabras that would have a black frame and some white candles. Something like this will work just fine and will fill the room with style and glamour. But, besides glamour and sophistication you will need a delicate touch too; so buy some black and white flower arrangements that would add freshness to the wedding venue. Anyway, the point is that you should go as far as picking even your dishes and cutlery on such elegant shades, because after all a black and white wedding is all about emphasizing at maximum these two shades.
Since we have mentioned the fact that one must accentuate the freshness of white and the elegance of black, then you could have a certain dress code, which would imply that all your wedding guests must have black and white outfits.
Thus, everything will seem extremely serious, luxurious and sophisticated, just like the wedding of your dreams.
In the end, we shall add that even if colours have a certain power, if you believe that you can not control it or if you believe that colours will confuse you, then the best solution for you would be to keep it simple and to pick only black and white. As for the vividness of your party, make sure that you will hire a great wedding band or DJ, because it turns out that it is up to them to create a wonderful wedding atmosphere.