The wedding isn’t only a moment of joy and togetherness; it’s also about emphasizing your point of view and of silent fights, on life and death. Not few are the times in which the couple is going to observe that those dear to them are fighting to convince them that their choices are wrong.
From the godfathers who want a bigger space to mother in laws who want their daughter in laws to wear a longer wedding dress or a larger one, there are also the complaints of the bridesmaids that can’t agree with the theme of your wedding, the palette of negative thoughts and ideas is so big that we can hardly succeed in including it into a unique review.
This is why we tried to renounce to presenting the causes and try to place some solutions here with the help of which you impose your point of view, because after all we’re speaking about your wedding.
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You’re not going to get anything resolved if you’re hyperactive and try to do all the things with too much fuss. Don’t react violently whenever you’re criticized or the persons around you doubt the choices that you’ve made at your wedding.
Try to listen with attention what is the person with complaints saying and explain firmly that you’re not going to change anything as long as it’s your wedding and it’s organized accordingly to your desires.
It’s very important to have the support of the groom when you make the decisions that concern both of your weddings. You’re going to observe that those close to you are going to find it difficult to sustain the decisions.
Also, ask him to temper the conflicts that can be between the family members. If there’s someone that can make the future mother in law change her opinion then you must know for sure that her son is able to do that.
You don’t want your style to be misunderstood when it comes to organizing the wedding? Then hire a crew of professionals who this on a long term period and who have an impressive portfolio.
Surely there will be some people to brag as well in this situation, but you’re going to have the advantage of professionalism whenever it comes to the tastes of your guests.
You know that the mother in law is not going to find the model of wedding dress that you’re going to wear as appropriate? Then don’t ask her to come with you when you’re trying on the dress. Is your uncle going to comment in what concerns the location? Tell him just before the wedding or when you send him the wedding invitation….