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Maid of Honor Speech Guide with Examples

As the maid (or matron) of honor at your best friend’s wedding, there’s a lot of responsibility that comes with the role. From the dress shopping to the bachelorette party and everything in between, there are a lot of duties that have been bestowed on you. And one that might not enter your mind until closer to the wedding is – the maid of honor speech.

Typically when people think about wedding speeches, it’s generally the best man’s speech that comes to mind. But in today’s modern times, women are also stepping up to the plate to give their own speeches. Now it’s becoming more and more popular these days for the maid of honor to also give a speech. If this has you frazzled, nervous or downright terrified, don’t worry! We’re going to help you knock your maid of honor toast out of the park.

We know that writing any speech can be challenging. But, when it comes time to speak about your best friend, in front of hundreds of wedding guests…the pressure is on! Luckily, we have some great tips and examples of how you can write and deliver an incredible maid of honor toast.

Thankfully, there are plenty of maid of honor speech examples out there that can help to guide you. Here, we will take a look at the way to structure your speech, provide several examples of a killer maid of honor speeches as well as tell you just why your speech matters. And we even throw in some ideas on where to get some extra help in writing your maid of honor speech, if you need it.

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When you think of wedding speeches, chances are the best man comes to mind because of the much-anticipated one-liners and embarrassing stories about the groom. But, the women of the night get to shine too.

The maid/matron of honor gets an opportunity to toast the newlyweds and it’s imperative that she’s just as prepared!

What Makes a Great Maid of Honor Speech?

A great maid of honor speech includes nearly everything that we’d think a great best man speech has. A bit of humor, a throwback story that’s both short and sweet, heartfelt words and a beautiful, well-wishing toast all come together nicely to make a memorable moment for the bride and the groom. The key to it all is preparation.

The structure of many classic maid of honor speeches is pretty simple. First, start out with a thank you. Then, briefly introduce yourself. Establish the relationship that you have with the bride. Tell people how long you have known them, and how well you know them.

Maid Of Honor Speech Structure

  1. Welcome and thank everyone
  2. Introduce yourself
  3. Explain your relationship with the bride (briefly)
  4. Share a funny story
  5. Comment on successes in their lives
  6. Talk about the first time you met the groom or bride
  7. Share a little about their love
  8. Congratulate the couple
  9. Raise your glass and present a toast

Give them a story about when you were both younger together. Comment on how you have seen them change over the years. Next, talk about the first time that you met the groom. You can tell the audience about how special this person seemed to your loved one, and perhaps even give them another story or two about their relationship together. Lastly, congratulate the couple. Offer a toast if you would like.

Important Points To Include

A great maid of honor speech will always include these necessary components:

  • A thank you to the guests, families, and everyone who made the day possible.
  • An introduction of yourself and your relationship with the bride.
  • Brief background of how long you’ve known the couple.
  • Stories from the past: anything that’s both sentimental and/or a bit funny.
  • The first time you met the groom and the spark you saw or how they grew as a couple.
  • Wishes for the future.

Points To Avoid

Of course, there are some things to avoid when giving your maid of honor speech including:

  • Avoid mentioning any ex-boyfriends, fiances or husbands.
  • Don’t swear or use obscene language, that includes if you tell a joke or two.
  • Try not to tell any stories that could be too embarrassing for the bride. Leave the drunken nights in the past.
  • That goes for the groom too. You can poke fun but don’t cross the line and humiliate him.
  • Finally, avoid talking about any of the lows of the newlywed’s relationship. No talk about arguments, breakups, or anything in between.

Maid of Honor Speech Examples

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Below you’ll find several great examples of maid of honor speeches that include all the necessary components you need to get the job done in style. Scroll through, jot down some notes and become inspired!

A Disney Maid of Honor Speech Fit For Her Princess Sister & Her Prince

If the bride and groom have a theme for their wedding day, such as Star Wars, Country-Chic, Great Gatsby, or Disney you can use that to create a masterful Maid of Honor speech. Check out this video that shows the sister of the bride, and Maid of Honor presenting a toast that is heartfelt and on point with the couples’ Disney theme.

Funny Maid Of Honor Speech

“Good evening everyone! My name is [Maid of Honor]. For those that don’t know me, the bride and I go way back. In fact, we literally go all the way back to the sandbox. We met at the park one afternoon. She was drawn to my homemade mullet. I was drawn to the giant chocolate stain on her shirt. “That’s my kind of lady,” I thought. We’ve been best friends ever since.

[Bride] is the absolute best friend I could have ever asked for. She’s also quite the one-a-kind woman. She can burn a bowl of cereal and she refuses to use a turn signal. She thought tuna was chicken until second grade because that’s what her mom kept telling her so she’d eat a tuna salad sandwich on a snowflake roll with the family. I watched her debate it with our teacher. We were having a lesson on the ocean and the kinds of fish and mammals that live there. I’m still impressed to this day because eventually, Mr. Marshall threw up his white flag.

But look at her now. Aside from the fact that she had the “Chicken of the Sea” debate far before Jessica Simpson, she’s grown into such a stunning, intelligent, and successful woman. [Groom], you’re a lucky, lucky fellow. She will devote the same love and commitment that I’ve felt from her over the years to you and that is priceless.

Congratulations [Bride] & [Groom], I wish you infinite years of happiness.”

Heartfelt Maid Of Honor Speech

“Good evening everyone! I hope you’re all having a lovely evening and I’d like to thank you all for coming out and celebrating with us tonight.

I’d like to take a few moments to talk to you about my best friend, [Bride], and her new husband, [Groom].

I’ve been [Bride’s] best friend since we were little girls. I remember how we used to play dress-up and dream of the weddings we would have when we were grown up. I’m sure that the wedding that has taken place here today far surpasses the childhood dreams I know[Bride] had about her big day!

[Bride] is one of the most loving, caring, and kind people I’ve ever met. She has a fantastic sense of humor and a sharp wit — so lookout, [Groom]! All kidding aside, though, I couldn’t be happier to honor my best friend on her wedding day.

I wish you two all the love and happiness in the world. How blessed you are to celebrate your love on this beautiful day. I know there are many happy years of love and togetherness ahead for you.

Let’s all raise our glasses to the bride and groom, and wish them a lifetime of love and joy!”

Two Sisters Share Maid of Honor Duties In Speech With a Toast & a Song

What an unbelievable maid of honor speech example. Two sisters share the duties during wedding planning and the toast. They found an unbelievable letter the bride wrote at age 7 which detailed the “rules for marrying her.” What a great find, and way to make your maid of honor toast unique and unforgettable. Oh, and the duet performed is an epic maid of honor speech move. Watch it now!


Brief Maid Of Honor Speech

“Hello, everyone! Firstly, thanks to everyone for making this day happen. Family, friends, and staff, it’s been a fantastic evening.

[Bride] looks fantastic tonight, doesn’t she? The groom looks pretty good too, I guess.

I am (Maid of Honor), nice to meet you all. Let me just say that I am the best friend she has EVER had. Except, perhaps, for (groom’s name). That I will admit. I have lots of memories with this girl. From the late nights up together talking to one another to playing together when we were younger.

And, also, talking about her past relationships. I’ve seen (Bride) with a few old boyfriends, but she never seemed truly happy, or in love. But, with (Groom) it is different. The first time I ever met the groom, I could tell that he was that special someone. She seemed happier, more jubilant, and free.

Since that time, I have seen them grow closer and closer. I can say that they both love each other more than anything else. It’s inspiring. It also shows us that no matter how wacky or crazy we are, there is someone out there for us!

Ladies and Gentlemen, a toast for the Bride and Groom.”

A Sister’s Maid Of Honor Speech

“Hi everyone! I’m [Bride’s] sister and I just want to say thank you to everyone for coming out today! It’s such a pleasure to be able to celebrate this special day with all of [Bride] & [Groom’s] friends and family.

So, full disclosure, I Googled a lot of maid of honor speech examples. The one piece of advice I kept finding over and over again was to start off with a quote. I did some research and I think their love is best described by Dr. Seuss:

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”

My sister and I have a lot of memories together most of which are too inappropriate to share today but whether she knows it or not, she’s always been a role model to me. She’s proven that patience is the key to happiness and if one day I can be as happy as she is today, that’s good enough for me.

Years ago, my mom dropped [Bride] off for her first day at Chico State and her final advice was to stay single and enjoy your freshman year. She met [Groom] that night.

I spent the last six years getting to know [Groom] and I want you to know we love you and we are really excited for you to be part of our family. We’re really blessed to have you and I feel incredibly lucky to be gaining you as my brother.

Now can we please all raise our glasses high in the air, Love is a friendship that has caught fire, may your love burn bright for years to come. Here’s to my best friend and her new best friend.”