Every girl has that one person they can turn to in times of need. Having a best friend is a vital part of life and most of us just wouldn’t know where we’d be without our best pals. So if you’ve been asked the all-important question and someone has entrusted you with everything in the run up to their nuptials, it’s time to step up to the mark and do everything in your power to be an awesome Maid of Honor
Here are the four stages of the chief bridesmaid’s duties.
Bachelorette Party / Hen Party
Wherever you are in the world, the bachelorette party or hen night is one of the most critical parts of your role as a Maid of Honor. This evening cannot disappoint; as the bride’s last night of freedom, it should be absolutely spectacular. Whether you choose Vegas, a European break or somewhere closer to home, make sure your party is jam-packed with fun activities that everyone can enjoy. It’s not all about the destination; the company is just as important, so always double check with the bride before you post out invitations. For assistance in planning a party, call in the help of a company such as The Stag and Hen Experience.
Some people like to have one joined up celebration during the bachelorette bash. But if your bride would like to keep her party and her shower separate, you need to make sure you pencil another date in the diary. The bridal shower is all about ‘showering’ the bride with gifts, so invitees should be close friends and family members and any close female family members of the groom. If you’re unsure about the next steps, read Martha Stewart’s guide to shower etiquette here.
No doubt you’ll be asked to help with the cake, flowers, bridesmaids dress/shoes, and just about everything else that needs sorting out. But there is nothing more important than helping the bride find her perfect wedding dress. It’s your duty to attend dress fittings; remember that the bride will be looking to you for honest but kind guidance in finding ‘the one’.
The Big Day
And just when you thought your jobs were over, the big day is the most important one of all. Nothing should go wrong for the bride on the wedding day and, as the Maid of Honor, it’s your duty to make sure everything runs smoothly. If you have the help of a wedding planner, you will be their main communicator. If you don’t, then you’ll have to work a little harder to have everyone lined up and every task completed. But the most important job of all? Making sure the bride is happy all day long.
Good luck with your exciting adventure as Chief Bridesmaid! Add your comments below if you can think of any other important tasks.